Pete, I just can't imagine finding a note like that. I was hoping (not that it would bring her back) that it was just a stupid, tragic accident. I don't know if the closure would have been any better or not.
I'm happy that you have a support system with you ATM. Lean on them, or any of us, anytime you need to.
Me 43 W 38 M 5 T 7 SD20 S15, S13 with 1st W ILYBNILWY June 2010 Separation/Bomb July 2010 Divorce Feb 8, 2011