Even though it would appear to be counterintuitive (at first), the concept of DBing makes complete sense. Despite that, my fear is if I adhere to the DB principles, W (who suggested we spent too much time together) will now consider me inaccessible. Marriages experience troubles for a variety of reasons, one being the amount of togetherness - either too much, or not enough. Any advice on not having the fear of swinging the pendulum in the opposite (yet equally problematic) direction? I would think there must be a fallacy in my reasoning, but I'm not sure what it is.
