Thank you so much for the responses. I really appreciate it. I am not really sure how to take the affair talk because it is not something that I think she would do (of course, I'm sure everyone thinks this way). She was looking for places today and signed a lease and is moving out tomorrow. I am really upset about the whole thing and for some reason I am still hopeful this could work out. Any tips about finding out if she is seeing someone short of being a creep and following her wherever she goes?
I feel like she is getting advice from her parents to move it along as soon as possible to prevent the hurt, so I was thinking it was that advice that was making her move so quickly...but not so sure anymore.
Maybe her moving out will be a good thing and maybe the space will make her realize what she's missing...one can hope.
