aeolian, my 1st W and I were together over 12 years. After our D, I went through our copious photo albums and made copies for myself. Except... any pics with her in them I didn't copy.
Now, years down the road I realize that this was a mistake. I have very few pics of someone who was an integral part of my live for over a decade. My wife, lover, best friend. The mother of my boys.
What I'm trying to say is don't let your present feelings get in the way of your shared memories. You *will* look back on all the great memories you've had.
Me 43 W 38 M 5 T 7 SD20 S15, S13 with 1st W ILYBNILWY June 2010 Separation/Bomb July 2010 Divorce Feb 8, 2011