aeolian,
my 1st W and I were together over 12 years. After our D, I went through our copious photo albums and made copies for myself. Except... any pics with her in them I didn't copy.

Now, years down the road I realize that this was a mistake. I have very few pics of someone who was an integral part of my live for over a decade. My wife, lover, best friend. The mother of my boys.

What I'm trying to say is don't let your present feelings get in the way of your shared memories. You *will* look back on all the great memories you've had.


Me 43 W 38
M 5 T 7
SD20
S15, S13 with 1st W
ILYBNILWY June 2010
Separation/Bomb July 2010
Divorce Feb 8, 2011