Possible WAW to Piecing? (Part 2)

[MHL]

Okay, still don't have time until later but you seem to be on now.

actions, Actions, ACTIONS........for both you!!!!!

You need to stop talking so much.....if she initiates great.....tell her honestly how you are feeling and then when she tells you how she is feeling......LISTEN and VALIDATE.

You need those 2 words tatooed to your forehead!!!!

Don't worry about what she says with regards to leaving, getting a D or anything like that........

Her actions speak louder than her words.....

She said the end of June and when the kids are out of school.... right?????

LOOK at the calendar dude........kids are going back to school in a couple of weeks!!!!!!!

That doesn't sound like she is doing a whole lot....HUH?????

Now stop jumping up and down.....you got a long way to go and you flat out got to do better than you have been doing.

I wish that one of my good friends had come up and smacked me in the face when I was where you are at........you keep things up the way you are going and you are going to make it worse.

I did........I got spun out of control, UP , DOWN , efffing Crazy and I lost it like you did last night except worse.

Last night was not good.....you backslide......accept it and get over it, learn from it and move forward.

Also I don't want to hear anymore of this VVVVVVVV.

I feel like that's the end of it all. I guess I see soon enough.

That is the wrong mindset and will get you nowhere.

every little thing that does not go as you EXPECT then it is the end for you.......

That is what having Expectations does......

EXPECT NOTHING........then you will not be disappointed.......

I have gone back and read a little and you are making some good changes.......that is good but stop pointing them out to her.

Also make the changes for you not for her.........

example.....

you did not do things around the house......right????

Well now you are doing them so that she will notice or that is her love language........right????

Well you need to go a step further........Make it a part of your skin!!!!

In otherwords..... It bothers your wife to have these little projects undone around the house.........

EVENTUALLY it needs to bother you that there are things around the house that need to be done, therefore you are motivated to do them for you......not her.

Otherwise your changes will not last and she will see right through them.

If you have really changed you will not "feel" the need to point it out, it would be redundant....you are who you are.

I would put that in Latin if I had time.....:D.

More later.....

Cheers