Again, yesterday after work I headed over to the house to help the stbxw move furniture into her new apartment. Afterwards put a couple of book shelves together for her that she had bought. Went through the drive up at McDonalds and had dinner. No R talk at all. I just enjoyed being together working together.
Today, stbxw came to my place of work again to sign some more papers for the house. Afterwards we went to our favorite mexican restaurant for lunch. She was tired and a little bit crabby. I was having harder time not talking about R today. I enjoy being with her, but I miss not being with her if you know what I mean.
I guess at this point I should just feel lucky that we are friends. I just need to remain patient, gradually continue to be friends until she is ready to date ME again. If I don't see progress towards that in the next few weeks, I might need to change things up, but for now, I feel like things are slowly progressing. My thoughts of how the progression will go to getting back together is
1. She completely hates me (because alien took over her body) 2. Friendship (close to being accomplished if not already) 3. Dating (Step 2 to step 3 could take awhile) 4. Falling in love (Can't wait) 5. Marriage again (Woo Hoo!!!)
If anyone feels differently about how I am handling things, I would love to receive input.
Bits M:35, W:39, M:12 S1:10, S2:8, D:5 Bomb: 3/25/11 "I am not in love with you anymore." Moved Out: 5/19/11 Divorce: 08/08/11
