I read through the prior thread and then this one. So happy that you guys are in counseling as its one of the steps I ignored when my wife and I were together, and when she left I started to pursue.
I'm not qualified to offer a strong opinion but I do see some positives. The fact that your wife is in individual counseling speaks volumes. It shows she cares and is willing to accept her part in a difficult situation. You were right to point out how being honest with the counselor is an important step...it shows that you care to make it work too.
I wish you and yours the best of luck in this difficult time and if I can offer anything, its to remember that marriage is not 50/50, it's 100/100.
