Yes I am in therapy and so are my children. It does help me and I know it helps my kids. I just dont know why Im to blame for everything. He will not take any responsiblility. It eats at me. I know his life with the OW is based on lies. He would never tell her the truth of what has happened. How do you live with yourself? But it doesnt bother him obviously. He blames me that our kids want nothing to do with him. That I bash him to them. That is so far from the truth. He believes what he has conjurred up in his mind so he looks like the victum. How long does someone live like that. Apparentlly he has done this for awhile stating he hasnt been happy for 10 years. That is news to me. The man that lived in my house with me and my kids "appeared" to be a happy guy. He got caught. He doesnt know how to deal with being caught with OW. It will make him look bad to all the people who think he's the greatest guy. So denies doing anything wrong thats it was all me. Its so hard to move past that.
