Has she filed for divorce? -- No, but after last night I'm thinking it's coming sooner than later!
Has she mentioned separation? -- Not directly. She's hinted at it. Back in early April I offered to move out (stupid, yes - I know that now) and she resisted. Then two weeks ago an R talk broke out and I told her she should just go, but I later backed off that and so did she.
Does she work, do you work, does she have a plan of escape?? - I make 80% of our household income. She owns a business that is tied to our 2nd mortgage and she would need to sell it in a D. She has a 'pie in the sky' plan of escape - she thinks about getting a 'real job', but hasn't pursued it yet.
Just yesterday we were talking about getting her a new car, then last night happens. I don't know what she's thinking about that now. The new car we're looking at is something she could pretty much flat out not afford on her own, even if I got brutalized on alimony and support - which I expect would be the case.
Me-44, W-38 S12, D10 --- EA: 3/20/11 Bomb: 3/25/11 "I'm waiting til June to 'do something'" statement from W: 4/26/11 Still in same house, in same bed
