Possible WAW to Piecing? (Part 2)

[MHL]

rh,

Man you are spinning HARD. (that is, spinning out of control)

You are right where I was almost 2 years ago to the date.

You have got to get a hold of yourself......NOW.

I will tell you that if this thing started at the end of March and you guys are in the same bed up until last night......then that is HOPE right there.

Most are sleeping in separate rooms by now.

There is much that I can say to you but will have to wait until later.

You are wanting to throw in the towel if you do not see some improvement or hear that she wants to work on things or whatever.......

the problem is that you do not really want to throw in the towel...........

It takes a lot longer for you to get to the point where you really want to throw in the towel.........trust me I know, I said the same things and I was no where near giving up.

I will tell you that you have the best expert here on these boards posting to you about what your W is feeling right now.

Sandi knows because she was in the same place as your wife.

Right now you can not possibly do anything to help your marriage because you are on the emotional rollercoaster.

This thing is going to take TIME, a very, very long time you will realize this as time passes.......the thing is that as the time passes you start to calm down.

I will post more later.....just a few questions.

Has she filed for divorce?

Has she mentioned separation?

Does she work, do you work, does she have a plan of escape??

Hope this helps

Cheers