Pretty sure this is a MLC or Identity Crisis

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You are right that I need to focus on myself more. I think that unfortunately it is going to take me to be living apart from her to do this. I don't think this is an MLC (although all the signs are there) but more of an identity crisis, and that she is very sensitive when others may ask her for responsibility or call her on her responsibilities. She percieves this as the person being judgemental and wants to write them off.

I am introspecting if i have been or am currently judgemental, which is working on me.

Thank you for your post.