Preseason has begun...just trying to make the cut

[MHL]

MTS,

Sorry that you are in the position that you have this knowledge about your W and the OM.

It does not take a genuis to put 2 and 2 together.....

There will come a day where her day to day whereabouts and activities will not concern you.....it does take time.

I used to look at it this way with my XW...... the more she was with the OM the more there would be an opportunity there would be for the initial "high" to wear off and then there comes a realization that they really do not have anything in common.

I have read many WAW's stories that have decided to come back, most of them come to the realization that most relationships are just alike........they do still love us and want our friendship and companionship and all the things that REAL, LASTING LOVE are made of.........the things that make up Commitment and Dedication.

They eventually realize that the "high" of any new relationship fades with time......and when it does fade they look back at their spouse and realize what it is that makes up true long lasting relationships.

The thing is that it takes TIME for them to figure it out, and they need to figure out without any pressure from us......at all.

Remain strong, focus on yourself and remember that HIS time is perfect.

Cheers