She is a civilian. I know htat my H would be in a world of hurt if anyone was to find out. In fact I know I could bring it on him if I wanted to but I want my marriage back instead. I have been doing some thinking and both affairs happened pretty close to his returns from Iraq and then this time Afangistan. Can that have anything to do with his weird change in attitude towards me and our marriage? This time was far worse as far as how close he has gotten to the OW but this time she is in his office and he has constant contact. Last time it was long distance.
