OK, Hubby is in MLC...but do I have to PAY for it?

[Tina2111]

Yeah, I was in therapy for a year when I was near the end of my first marriage (20 years), trying to work up the courage to leave. I'm aware of my demons...I guess they are still haunting me.

I know I enabled my first husband, and did too much and gave too much...basically did the same thing in my first marriage until my hubby finally just laid on the couch and drank for 3 years.

I guess with this marriage, I thought I had married the "right" guy, and that I should be able to freely be generous and fully dedicated and serving. I never expected to be back in the same place.