You are very correct we all do want to be with someone who loves us for who we are (not who they want us to be), is crazy about us and will miss us when we are not there.
I know for me it is my boys that are keeping me from wanting to stop the divorce, they seem so little to be going through this. But at some point I need to be happy too, right?
Keep your chin up Telemark!!! I hope you have a great time with your D!