OnMyWay: to the next phase.

[OnMyWay]

W has been very active around here lately. Kind of has me worried.

She's been very "chatty" with me with her text messages. I've responded positively, but am still uncomfortable with her face-to-face. She's been asking a lot of questions about D9's BFF's mother, who has hinted very directly her interest in me. During the day today, while I was at work, W managed to get herself invited over to mom's house for a day at the pool with our girls. Very strange, as I still get interesting responses from the mom - who has all of a sudden become much more forward with me - which is odd. I've been rather "unreceptive" to the mother's advances and now have reason to continue with that approach. Plus, my W texted me pool side about how her body is better than the mom's, etc. Craziness. All I need are two psycho women competing together, yet against each other - like shark infested waters: something I'm not going to be swimming in. I don't trust either of them, especially if they are in cahoots. Or worse, in friendly competition to see who's the winner.

All this has made W rather motivate/brazen in the past couple of days. D9 invited her over for a sleep over tonight, which I was told, not asked, was happening. After today's pool thing, D9's little BFF is staying over also - a regular girls night at my house, hosted by my W. I just got a text a while back from W stating that, since it's a full house, she'll be sleeping in our bed because she doesn't feel like sleeping on the couch. She knows I don't sleep on the couch, so she's expecting to be sleeping in our bed with me. Wondering if she'll be expecting sex later. I definitely don't think I'm ok with that. So WTH does this mean? Is she "protecting her territory" that she abandoned six months ago?

Also, she's made some other decisions about scheduling with D9 and another friend (my thing - not hers). She just stepped in and rearranged everything - kind of exerting her authority here? I don't know if I'm comfortable with this.

Any DBer's out there of the female persuasion care to offer any analysis? I've long since given up on trying to figure out what goes on in her head.

I'll just keep my head down and keep doing MY thing which has been working really great for me.