Wife no longer in love with me

[Truegritter]

I haven't slept properly in weeks

Let me guess you wake up at 4:32a.m. every morning?

Man you are in the spinning stage.

Just recognize it.

As far as anything you would force on your W:

Come get her stuff?

Would you make your friend do that?

I know she is your W and she has hurt you BUT

If you can't stand her a courtesy you would extend a friend?

Well

She will see it as such.

Is that who you want to be?

I don't care about expectations. Be the bigger man.

Pick your battles. Make sure they speak about who you are.