Aw, I get it Aeoli - I just got a similar email from BF.
It's weird - I guess for me, it's as if I'm the only one feeling sad. Like he's moved on and just wants "the best for me." I go, "oh, how nice of you."
I'm facing major consequences right now, seeing this hurt my daughter, seeing the impact.. IDK, there's something kind of shallow-feeling around it.
I can't put a finger on it, but just know I had the same feeling a minute ago reading BF's email myself. I do know what you mean.