How many dates until...?

[kat727]

I am glad you realize that stuff like that is far from the norm. Also far from smooth sailing. I am guessing she was his first and couldn't get her out of his head.

I still say it depends on what you are looking for regardless of your sex drive. Any relationship worth having is going to take time and effort. If you don't want to be a booty call, don't be one. Pretty simple.