but Avoid discussing your h or m with your sil's bf...
IF HE brings it up & or asks if you are divorcing,
you say something like "who knows? BUT I sure hope not b/c we've been together a long time and have built a family..."
and somehow insert that "Though painful, in some ways it's been a great experience, b/c I feel like I see things very differently now..."
demonstrate your changes...
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
