Thank u. Just thought wed beat this thing. What does THIS mean?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
like one weekend a month or one night a week...(preferably the latter since it's more frequent--UNLESS you have a need for something else)
and see if he asks for more.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
Or write in none, and let him counter it. Really ... that's what he's been living with ...
I kinda like this^^^
how does it hurt?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
I agree. She will write it as agreed upon by us. So if he really wAnts to see them he will have to make the effort rather than being handed a schedule telling him when to see them. What do u think about that?
not him or his idiocy/cowardice/fear/shame, blah blah blah...
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
Your options, IF you are in charge of ALL of this, are
1) say zero visitation b/c that's what seems to be the way he wants it (for how long now??)
2) or announce a certain number of visits and hope he shows up, regardless of whether he thinks it is controlling.
My guess is that the latter is what's best for the KIDS
but only if he really does show up.
I think he will but, who knows?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
Yes, not me the courts but my L is asking me what I think. She would like to say "if he wants to see them he will call and arrange time". My words of course. Then we will b sure he wants to see them not a court order. I don't want him to have them if he doesn't want them.
