I know I know!

I won't ask. I'll actually ask his boss - who is my SIL's BF. I get on well with my SIL and I believe that her BF is as confused as I am over what H did/is doing.

H 34, W 36
T 13.5
M 8.5
C 6yo twins
S 6/5/11
OW 7/6/11
OW moves in 9/18/11