she has NOT asked for aid and you've offered in the past, why did she refuse?
And IF you believe it would be a 180 for you NOT to rescue her
then maybe let her figure this out all by herself.
Do you two split expenses or something? Why does the lost income hurt HER so much?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016