We have a lot of similarities. I'm also in sales. Nothing affects numbers more than being demotivated due to negative vibes. As you know, a lot of sales books talk about the importance of having a postive attitude. Read them, they have been helping me.
I bet you do have high self-esteem. Our circumstances really shatter this, doesn't it?
I've been through the stage where the wife was giving me the cold shoulder constantly. She also was constantly taking the kids out doing activities. It is a phase, at least it was for my stbxw. My advice is just be friendly.
You probably recall that about two weeks ago I was experienceing one of my down turns. I spent a lot of time focusing on what I wanted, how to achieve it, and how I needed to improve.
Being positive and fun I believe is helping me. Don't ask me how I'm doing it right now, I would have to guess a lot of praying for patience and getting a hobby that I enjoy that occupies my free time has helped.
Stay in touch.
Lonely in SLC
Bits M:35, W:39, M:12 S1:10, S2:8, D:5 Bomb: 3/25/11 "I am not in love with you anymore." Moved Out: 5/19/11 Divorce: 08/08/11
