Treading water - time and patience

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Journaling - nothing new really to report.

We'll be going to MC tomorrow, a little nervous about the whole thing, but I am hoping it will provide some clarity.
Finally got my W to tell me what the plans are for this weekend with the girls so I can work on GAL without losing time with my girls. As it turns out I'll be with the girls all weekend (my W will be working), so going to the lake for the day (should be interesting with MIL), bar-b-q at friend's place and some shopping is on the cards (girls to buy W b'day gift).

Also found out W and girls will be at the lake without me for a week later this month. I know the girls enjoy the time up there so much, although I'll miss them I won't say anything about it, just find things to keep me occupied.

A little frustrated at my W's cold demeanour towards me lately - it's almost like she's detaching, short answers, going to bed earlier than normal etc. One other thing I've noticed is she hasn't worn her wedding / engagement rings for a couple of days - (she often took them off when washing or doing chores and just forgets to put them back on). Rings have been in the same position on the sideboard - so tempted to say something - but haven't (maybe I am learning something), but proves I am still having problems detaching.
Will report back after MC tomorrow.