Did you ever consider the fact that your being so willing to have sex without really knowing who it is you're having sex with is the exact reason that you find yourself in this place?
I have to say that I agree with the others. I wasn't willing to re-live past mistakes and this time I wanted something much different. The last thing I would have considered in a man that took his time to get to know me was that he had a low sex drive. What I do know is that the guy I have in my life now has been in the picture for years. Not only was he willing for us to get to know each other but he was willing to give me the space to allow me to put my children first.
As I write this I am in a relationship with a kind, caring and truly selfless man who always puts my needs above his. I'm not exactly sure how long we dated before we had sex, but it was a while. So in my case when it did happen I knew that he wasn't there just for the sex but for the log haul.
