I don't think any man is going to say, "nah, I'd rather not," if you said you wanted to have sex, high or low sex drive. Might you have to initiate it more often? Maybe - sounds like you'd be in the driver's seat for that, which isn't a bad place to be.
I know that there was one guy who seemed like a good possibility for me, and I messed it up by going too fast - got to keep the hormones in check. And that was just old fashioned necking! He was into it at the time, but I got the polite let-down via email right after. I think guys feel it is a sign of desperation / neediness if we act too quickly, if they don't have the "hunt" and make sure that they know more about us first.
Also, some guys date for access to sex. Others date to find someone to have a relationship with. You have to ask yourself, which do you want?
Live and learn...I would definitely wait until I knew someone much better, first. I had my "fling," where I knew it was all about sex and that we had nothing else in common - it was fun, but I also knew it had an end-point. I didn't want a relationship with him. Going forward, I have decided that I would want a relationship, and I accept that it can take a lot of people to meet and time to find someone worth it. I might not count the number of dates, especially if there is other communication between them. But 3 months doesn't sound like too long.
