Originally Posted By: aeolianchaos
Any of that stuff that you feel like you lost and might wish to recover?


Hi Aeolian, thanks lots for dropping by to comment. I realize that the WAS has to cling to the negatives to keep convincing themselves as well as to garner support from family/friends. Healthy, married couples talk about both the negatives and positives, after all.

I was doing well before being married, but I will say that I am a waaaay better person by being married, AND an EVEN better person when my wife decided to leave and I made the conscious decision to change my life. My aspirations and plan are still alive and well, as you can read from my previous post to 25.


M37, S5
M-7y; T-8y
Separated 060410
Wife/son moved 022611
Wife serves d-papers 032011
I filed child custody 042012; obtained custody 070312
Bifurcated 103112