will have to be made clear very soon if you are to use the leverage you presently have, wisely.
But remember, if you make his work back in, a "Climb Mt Everest" type of thing, he'll feel it's hopeless.
Then "what's the point?" will settle in, he'll start to bolt and you will rush in & let all the boundaries go and the m will end or be lousy.
But letting him in without boundaries at the get go will also damage or end the m.
It's a fine line.
Walk it carefully.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016