I don't remember if you have kids and how old they are kml, but I don't think in my situation I would even be going out for 3 dates a week. I have my kids about 90% of the time. I also don't kiss on the first date. I want to know someone before I sleep with them. I have only had sex with 2 guys, the last being my former husband.

If a guy was fine waiting a while as we got to know each other, I would think I had found a great guy. Maybe we are looking for two different things...I prefer relationships to simply dating. Neither choice is wrong.

kat

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