Can a marriage survive two affairs?

[25yearsmlc]

I am going to C alone. I am hoping it will work that way. My H says the feeling for her have been lessening but have not gone away yet.
My H does not have actual contact with OW. He just has to see her at work since they are in the same office. They do not speak unless it is professionaly related. She even calls him "Sir" now instead of by his name incase her husband pops in and catches her talking to him.

I hope to God she's a civilian b/c if she's active duty and calling him "Sir" it means

he out ranks her and is in a world of trouble if anyone finds out.

ANYHOW...
Of course you going to C is better than nothing. Here in DB land WE LBSers do most of the work to

get things into the "Piecing" stage...where both parties have to pull their weight.

Let us know how that goes.