Don't pressure yourself to get over this any faster than you are ready to. It's a huge event and you owe it to yourself and your kids to take the time to fully digest it.
M: 32 W: 29 T: 9 Years M: 4 Years I hit rock bottom: 2/11 PA admitted: 4/11 WAW: 5/11 D filed: 6/11 now: Patience, wisdom, and growth - hopefully.