Telemark - hang in there tonight. I think you'll still be feeling the relief of not being in the pressure cooker anymore.
Too bad your S had to cut his visit short, but it's great to hear you will be doing dinner with your D.
Originally Posted By: Telemark
Before she left, W and I talked a lot about past history, our present situation and how we got to where we currently are. We agreed to not be so "dark" in our communications w/ each other. She seemed very warm and affectionate.
I think that was all smoke. W is back to no communication at all unless I contact her (about getting the rest of her things out, financial arrangements, etc.), and then she gives 1 or 2 word responses. Cold and distant. I should not be surprised or even concerned, I suppose. She is where she has wanted to be for a long time and I need to not think about it.
Ah yes, the quintessential WAW. Draw you in and pull back. Over and over again. She thinks she's living the dream right now. Only time will tell how this plays out, and you gotta give it time. Work on being the best possible Telemark. Make that your mission.
Originally Posted By: Telemark
On the positive side, I get to move my music studio from the basement where I was sharing it with the spiders, and into one of the bedrooms on the first floor (it's a 4 bedroom house so I'll have space for my studio/office and the manly media room).
