Pete

I know you hurt and it is still fresh, very raw

The feeling of anger, rage, sadness

They are feelings and are neither right nor wrong

They are yours and you should feel them all.

Do not be ashamed of how you feel....towards yourself, towards your wife or towards OM.

Don't judge your feelings, IMO there are no bad feelings.

That last few days I'm sure have been a whirlwind and as usually the case with the lost of a loved the effects will begin to take root later on.

Reality will take a little while to sink

For the time being concentrate on today because that is all you have.

Don't be to hard on yourself. Accept what you feel and don't judge it just feel it.

I have been meaning to ask you a questio or two

1. What town in Canada do you live in?

2. The name of your thread is very interesting. Why did you name it that? Just curious?

Question one I would like to know

Question two.........take your time.

How are the kids?

BITS