Just discovered affair please help

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I can see you are a whole lot stronger this time around.

You're right there, I do feel a lot stronger than last time - I think because my rose tinted specs were removed last time so it isn't so much of a bolt from the blue!

He's being annoyingly nice because he knows he been busted, and you are not going to believe him this time. He thinks if he pampers you and brings you tea and stuff, you will begin to imagine such a nice guy has to be telling the truth, which is kinda what he did before.

I hadn't thought of that!!! just thought he was trying to mend things!

If you can be kind, but detached, and let him see you will take no nonsense from him this time, maybe he will begin to see that he has really screwed up big time.

He certainly knows he has screwed up big time this time around, he has said himself he feels far more guilt than he did when he left and I can tell by his pained expressions that he is realising this might be it for good!

You didn't do a darn thing, except to trust him the way a wife should, it's all on him. I know how hard you have worked on your M.
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Pity he doesn't think it's all on him to fix it