Actually alot of your arguments in the past few posts sounded like you were trying to convince yourself that you were okay with an open marriage.
I don't know what you mean by a "jealousy issue" and when you discussed an open M with your W. From what I recall she just didn't know if she liked guys or girls.
You were the one who mentioned an open M. Really sounds like both of you need help right now. The professional kind.
"She has her own demons, she'll have to work on. She tends to ignore issues until they are in her face. You can't get more in your face than this. As long as we both work hard I think we could have something that is more than healthy."
Sounds like you're the one who is starting to ignore the issues and quite frankly I don't see you both working hard at anything except getting sex from others. Doesn't sound healthy to me and I'm not a prude or anything.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.