Life, the Universe and DBing

[LearningPatience]

Heh, CS, don't blame you for not looking back through my posts, I've got the 'wall of text (tm)' thing covered.

I had been planning on doing some MC work myself. I like my current IC, but I feel I've come as far as I can with him. I spend my sessions just rehashing the past week or two. Verbal form of journaling, I guess.

Last Sunday, and the time before when we had R talk, W keeps asking me 'what should we do?', like she wants me to make the decision so she doesn't have to. Finally, I asked W if she thought about MC. She said she had and had got a name from her own IC. However, this was right before I went dark on her in a letter (May 20ish or so). She was so mad and filled with hate for me that she ripped up the MC information.

Sunday, W said that she'd get the name again. She said her IC thinks we have a communication problem. I agree, but I think there's more than that. She was supposed to get the name on Monday during her own IC session. I haven't asked if she got a name, as I didn't want to push any R talk. Did I mention our communication problem?

I don't know how committed or serious W was about MC. She seems serious about getting out of this limbo. So the questions I have are do I ask her if she got a name? Do I mention that I had an MC in mind? Let her take the lead or run with it myself?