Thank you Brooklyn and Twink. You guys are right and I am doing better, but sometimes I slip. Mostly, it is because I have contact with her.

Speaking of contact, our mediation is tomorrow. I'm dreading it like the plague...

Tad

Currently:
M 56 XW 57
Sons 38,33,31,29

The Sitch:
Married 26 years
EA w/ OM 9/10
Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary)
Sep 12/10
She wants D 1/11
W files 5/11
D final 10/11
XW marries OM 6/13