I would not take my husband for granted anymore. I would make time for date nights at least once a fortnight. I would not work at night after he got home. I would not watch tv in the lounge room until late. I would schedule (I hate that word) sex at least 2 - 3 times a week. I would kiss him goodbye in the morning, and kiss him welcome home at night. I would put messages telling him how much I love him in his lunch. I would make sure that I was lying in bed beside him before he went to sleep (instead of being out watching tv). I would hold his hand when we walk anywhere. I would take time everyday after the kids had gone to bed to listen to him. To ask him how his day was. To find out how he really is. I would organise a night or two away for just us at least 4 times a year. I would try to spice up our love life - I would iniate sex, and also try it in different places, and different positions, etc.
Will you marry me?
Good stuff Julz.
Be well.
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