She was 15 when it happened. I have no doubt that it caused her some severe problems that manifested later on -- I've witnessed some very "crazy" moments throughout the years. Symptoms included dissasociation, intense flashbacks, vaginal pain, depression, feelings of unworthiness, and a general distaste for sex. She saw a couple of therapists when she was a teen and saw one regularly my last year of college. I don't mean to paint her as some kind of wacko; usually, she's very together, and a lot of these symptoms did lessen the last year. She's given me explicit detail of her sex with OM and has explained that he's into some pretty rough stuff -- stuff we never came CLOSE to doing.
To be honest, your guess is accurate -- I think. Looks-wise, he looks almost exactly like me. However, whereas I got my degree in English and have some lofty goals when it comes to my writing, OM is a blue-collar factory worker who doesn't sound like he has many dreams in life. She explained to me (despite going about how great he is) that they really have nothing in common.
