he may well come back. Doesn't mean you don't work on you of course.
That's the thing about LBSers and WASs...the WAS goes off and assumes he has fixed "the problem"...
whereas the LBSer MUST work on herself b/c that's the only choice she has. Or to wallow...but the thing is,
we have no choice but to make the best of it. So most of us choose to grow.
The WASs will 2nd guess every choice he makes every time something goes wrong in his now perfect life...
He will wonder if the LBSer changed...and if the changes were real and might have been made in time
if only he had spoken up...
The LBSer will meet new people and work on resolving their most troubling traits. They will improve as people and become more loving in their lives.
They won't 2nd guess that choice b/c it was clearly the best healthiest choice.
But unless the WAS is truly happier in their new life even after time has passed
AND sees a miserable ex LBSer...
they will always 2nd guess & look over their shoulder.
The LBSer won't.
Make sense?
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