Denver, I agree with the posts above.

I guess I look at it this way.

You have been given an opportunity. One to find complete happiness with yourself that is not dependent on an OP.

Perhaps you can find this anyway, but my feeling is, you will go from feeling your happiness is dependant on your W, straight to OW.

I fear you may miss this opportunity.

I hope I'm wrong.

Peace.

BITS

Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.