Very frustrated, and very disappointed it's come to this.
No, as per the above posts I won't talk to her or contact her now. She has given me the "sorry Cam we just need to move on from this" line, so there's nothing I can do.

A lot of it is true to me. I went through a really bad patch with work and I wasn't coping and I was bringing it home. I was unhappy and nothing she did made it better. She felt it was all too hard. I wasn't affectionate enough and at times I did treat like my best friend too much or one of the boys and not like a wife. I didn't tell her she was beautiful enough. So I feel I am to blame for a lot of this, if I had taken proper notice of her when she would bring it up, I probably wouldn't be here now.
It does sting, it really hurts as I have now finally woken up and I don't get the chance to prove that I am back to the person she fell in love with - the happy, fun Cam and work isn't my life.
I lost sight of my priorities, I was chasing a senior career and I couldn't handle the pressure and stress and it made me unhappy. I wasn't coping and it scared her off. Scared her that things would be difficult in the future, and she would be trapped in Australia if we had kids.


M 35
W 31
Separated 2/2011 but still together
Ended it 4/2011
Together 8 yrs
Married 3.5 yrs
Lawyers involved 6/2011