Originally Posted By: Psych
Was I only doing so well because W was not there for me to fret over?


Maybe?

I am just passing by here Psych so haven't read your sitch but I assume some folks have talked about detachment with you?

It is a process. And it is hard work. But absolutely necessary.

You will be a worrying mess and you will appear that way to W.

Your goal here?

Get control of your emotions about all this. Which means detaching.

Nothing good is going to come for you or your M while you are worrying and full of fear.

How do you think you can do this?

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am