That's true when you've been with someone for years and years and when you agreed to spend their life with you they treated you well, respectfully, were faithful for long periods of time (and I mean years not months). What you've got here is a newish husband who hasn't earned the privilage of your patience.
There is never any excuse however, MLC or not, for living without personal boundaries. There are many people here who live with their MLCer with strong boundaries in place. The boundaries are to protect you.
How does it feel when he doesn't come home and you know he's having a "sleep over" at a woman's house?
Tina - do you want him to be with you becasue you can offer him a financially comfortable life? Or do you want him to be with you because he loves and respects you and wants to share his life with you?
That's the question you have to ask yourself ... and that's the work you have to do. Don't sell yourself short.
Reminds me of a song .... can't buy me looove, love, can't buy me looove ....
(and Tina - believe me, I do know what you're going through. It takes one to know one, and I've been exactly where you are ... it's worht doing the work. there's a whole new well of love available to you ... but you've got to dig deep to find it, because it's buried deep inside your own heart. When you find it, you will never again tolerate anything other than the ultimate respect and love from your partner. I can promise you that)
