WAW, and a bisexual open marriage part 4

[25yearsmlc]

Mr bond
I'm 27 if I ended up getting divorced, I planned on just going wild. I'm young in great shape, I'd say good looking , have a great job with wads of disposable income. I'm pretty confident I'd have some great long term and short term relationships.

After all the drama, it would take quite a bit to get me to settle for one girl. I'm willing to do it for my W because I really love her, but if things go south it will be ridiculously hard to get me to settle down again.

Sorry but after hanging here for a while my faith in marriage is kinda non-existent.

Gee, what a smart place to look for restoring your faith in marriage. A divorce support site...

Any and all new girls I'd meet would have to understand that I'm not on the settling down plan anymore, and they'd probably have to share me.
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so you DO want an open m, You just don't want HER to want it??

I gave my W my all if she ends up throwing it away it's her loss.

No woman will ever get what my W has gotten in the past. My W didn't used to be like this, but I spoiled her. Never again.[/b]

So sorry you got THIS pathetic MESSAGE and lesson out of all the crap you were put through. It's the most disappointing post you've written, to me.

There are SO MANY women who could love you in a way you have apparently never been loved before...

Women of substance, who'd care for you if you were permanently injured, or old and wrinkled, women who'd desire you over all others AND would willingly forsake others...

yes, even women who are "hot" and smart and earn their own incomes...

Geez, all this crap and THIS is what you get out of it?

That You won't ever marry again b/c a wildly confused woman with some serious emotional baggage has made you think that's "typical"? You're using her as an excuse.

Go to a Happy Marriage forum and learn what is typical in a Happy Marriage.

Don't think this place is the model for that. By definition it isn't.

You know this. What an odd lesson to take from all this self imposed pain.

How sad.