Why did I deserve a 2x4? I tried to do my best to follow the good advice YOU GUYS gave me, and I deserve a 2x4? What did I do wrong? Why did I deserve a 2x4?
Tina, Sandi is one of the very best DBers we have here, and can offer you PRICELESS and unique advice as a formerly wayward wife caught up in an EA. 2x4s are given to challenge you; if you feel the advice doesn't fit, then say so, and give us more perspective. Sandi is as fair as they come.
Don't shoot the messenger.
Starsky
Oh, no, I wasn't being sarcastic. My question was sincere. All I did was come back to my thread (which i learned we are supposed to keep all our topics on one thread) to say that I had made a baby step at boundaries today...and instead I got a 2x4 from someone for telling my husband no? I just wondered why Sandi thought I needed a 2x4 for saying I had made a step at boundaries?
That's all. I wasn't shooting Sandi at all. Just trying to understand.
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