Dear 9, I'm thinking of you and your boys and wishing you future years filled with joy and happiness. You are a good man and loving father. Your wife had a long history of issues that she believed she could not overcome, even with the professionals available to her.

we're all thinking of you often, I hope that brings some comfort. While I adamantly believe you could not have prevented this, your comments have given me pause about how I DB and some of the things my WAS has said. It has made me even more certain that I should be encouraging my H to return to therapy and that I should return myself. Thank you.


Faith is, at one and the same time, absolutely necessary and altogether impossible.
--Stanislaw Lem