I do trust you, and I see your points on forgiveness. Yes it would be for me.
I am in the fortunate position (if you can call it that) to have 2 very good female friends at work who are in exactly the same situation as me exct that they are. WAWs. One is just become WAW (although she hates that term). She is feeling trapped in her marriage and has felt unhappy for at least 5 years. She wants to leave her marriage and when she talks about how she feels and thinks it is a window to understanding how my action helped lead my wife to this sitch.
The other friend (from work) who was a WAW and left her husband a few years back to persue her affair partner in a relationship. It is clear to me that she is not happy in that relationship most days when she tells me about her struggles with him. She even commented that she questions that she had done the right thing by leaving her husband. She said to me once, "I wish (name) would have tried harder". When I asked her to clarify that a few days later, she couldn't... Clearly she is still unsure on her decision to leave. She even admitted that her kids "hated her" for a long time for what she did and that they still don't have the closeness they had before the split.
Both of their thought and experiences also reflects what you have told me.
So anyways I want say thank you for your guidance.
I do take heed and I will follow it
Johnnie
Me 45 W 34 W.A.W. 3K. D11 S9 D6 M 12 y T 13 y Bomb drop 02/22/2011 2nd written bomb (Letter bomb) 05/31/2011 Affair (A bomb) revealed 07/03/2011
