well said Jack3,

2step, the thing about Denver having contact with his w, at this time,

sure seems to go badly. Time apart seems to go better, at least when she wonders.

And I do think making her wonder, b/c Denver really IS moving on, is about the only way to get some movement here.

Denver, is "some movement here" really what you want?

be careful what you wish for.

Can you imagine, as I can, 6 months from now still dating OW,

and having to choose between a new fresh start, with her,

and your w?

As 2step asked, and it's worth thinking about, what would reconciliation look like someday?

What would rejecting her look like? WIth or without OW?

Can you imagine either scenario more?


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change